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low-key gatherings for the socially curious
Hygge ("hue-guh"): a quality of coziness and comfortable conviviality that engenders a feeling of contentment or well-being
What are Hygge Gatherings?
Each gathering is an open invitation to the kindhearted,
delightful, and curious people you think we should all meet.
We'll share meals, talk passions and projects, and meet those who can help.
To make conversations with strangers easier and more fruitful,
keep an eye out for hand-written recipes for deeper connection.
The force behind this event is passion, not business.
We're here to make friends, not contacts.
We believe everyone can teach us something.
We are gathering to help one another do the most possible
good with our projects, adventures, and connections.
This is not a startup or networking meetup.
It's an informal get-together of people seeking meaningful
conversation and purpose-filled action in their lives.
We hope to help you find it here.
PS - We have a Facebook group and a Substack.
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Next Hygge Hike:
Hyggehiking Manhattan's Swarthmore Analogues
Saturday, September 20, 2025
10am-10pm
👉 RSVP HERE 👈
On Saturday, September 20th, we'll spend 12 hours wandering through the parks, atriums, amphitheaters, food courts, beaches, and libraries of Manhattan. This particular hike highlights the vibrant and serene places that evoke the rolling hills and social hubs of my alma mater, Swarthmore College. Bring your curiosity, your stories, and your friends!
About
If you haven't been to a Hygge event before, think of it as a casual gathering to make new friends, discuss fun projects you're eager to work on, dive into deep, thoughtful discussions, and meet people who can help make NYC feel like a smaller, closer-knit community. Bring your friends, family, coworkers, anyone you think would enjoy both meeting new people and coming across friendly and familiar faces.
"Hyggehiking" is my own special blend of Hygge gathering — a conversational stroll through the green spaces of our city.
Logistics
This is a 12 hour hike spanning 10+ miles, and you are free to join us at any point in the day. All RSVP'd "yes" and "maybe" attendees will receive a link at 10am to my realtime location for the entire day, along with my phone number, so you can see exactly where we are on Google Maps and call me directly if you need help.
What to bring
- comfy walking/hiking shoes
- cash
- friends 🥰
Itinerary
Here's my Google Maps list of the places we'll pass by. We may not make it to every location on the list, but I encourage you to dig deeper into any of them whenever you please. All times are rough estimates.
10am-10:30am — David Rubenstein Atrium
✨ We'll begin our trek in a public atrium that has always reminded me of the Swarthmore’s Science Center commons.
10:30am-1pm — Lincoln Center for the Performing Arts, The Mall and Literary Walk, Umpire Rock, Hallett Nature Sanctuary
✨ Next, we'll wind through our analogues for LPAC (Lincoln Center), Magill Walk (Literary Walk), Crumhenge (Umpire Rock), and the Crum's Alligator Rock (Hallett Nature Sanctuary).
1pm-3:30pm — The 550 Garden, The Hugh, New York Public Library, Ace Hotel
✨ I haven't been inside Swat's new dining center or the new Singer Hall, but from the outside, they each give off vibes I associate with The 550 Garden and The Hugh, two large food court atriums in Midtown East. We'll eat lunch at the Hugh, then make our way to the NYPL, our McCabe Library counterpart, followed by the Ace Hotel, which, like Hobbs in the Ville, serves as a gravity well for creative and social energy.
3:30pm-6pm — The High Line, Gansevoort Peninsula, Little Island
✨ Built upon a retired rail corridor, The High Line matches nicely with Swat's train station. And for those who haven't revisited Swat's campus in a while, there are now beautiful little wooded walking trails between Magill walk and the train tracks! We'll wander the High Line until we arrive at our Parrish Beach equivalent, Gansevoort Peninsula, right on the Hudson and replete with Adirondack chairs! From there, it's just a short hop to Little Island, whose amphitheater and fragrance gardens perfectly evoke their Swat corollaries.
6pm-8pm — Washington Square Park, Percy's Pizza
✨ You can find the social energies of Parrish Commons and Tarble combined in Washington Square Park, which serves as a central hangout and meeting location for virtually any NYC denizens. For anyone hungry for Renatos Pizza, we'll wander a few blocks over to its Greenwich Village equivalent, Percy's Pizza.
8pm-10pm — The Chai Spot, Caveat
✨ Whenever I enter The Chai Spot, I'm transported back to every dorm and lounge I'd ever stumbled upon at Swarthmore. It's cozy, colorful, and incredible for quiet reading, people watching, and long-form conversation with friends. We’ll spend the remainder of the evening here, but anyone who's feeling like an Olde Club style experience can venture over to Caveat, NYC's underground haven for intellectual nightlife, which typically hosts two live edu-comedy shows every day of the week.
Below, I've shared the route we'll most likely take. You can follow my live location, or call me at any point if you have trouble finding us.
Meet Your Host, Steve Dean
💁♂️Me
I'm an NYC-based community builder, dating industry consultant, relationship coach, entrepreneur, and diehard superconnector. Creating deep, authentic connections across communities is what I do. It’s what I live for. I host salons, dinners, meetups, webinars, and coworking sessions across multiple cities in order to bring people together from all over the world to share their stories and build new friendships, startups, and movements.
📱My Work
For over 14 years, I've been a consultant to the entire dating industry, helping founders build and launch new apps, and coaching individuals through the complex world of dating and relationships. You can hire me to consult, coach, speak, or lead a workshop anytime through my website, Dateworking.
🎧My Podcast
I started my Dateworking podcast to learn from experts and founders who focus on the art and science of human connection, sexuality, dating, relationships, and personal development! Listen here!
Explore to my library/newsletter of dating & relationship insights.
Follow my news, events, and founder interviews on Facebook and Instagram.
Hire me to advise your dating business or personal dating life.
If particularly curious, venture to https://stevedean.fun
💸 Tip your Host 💸
Suggested: $20
I keep this event free-to-attend so that it's easy for people to bring anyone they please without feeling like they're shoving someone's face into a paywall.
That said, your donations are what enable me to actually look forward to doing this sustainably, year over year. Please be as generous as you are able.
Paypal: @stevedean
Not sure what to expect?
Explore my recap videos from past Hyggehiking gatherings below.
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